6 North Mossley Hill Road,
Liverpool
L18
A
strange post this. Whilst scouring Mark Lewisohn's "Tune In" book for
unfamiliar Liverpool locations with a Beatles connection I was intrigued to
read that John Lennon's mum Julia gave birth to her second child in a home
called Elmswood. I had unknowingly driven past it hundreds of times, North
Mossley Hill Road being part of my rush-hour avoiding route to and from work in
Liverpool city centre.
Having
visited the site, taken the photos and done the research I'm afraid this is a
pretty joyless story.
It's
also one full of contradictions, and conflicting versions of events as you
would expect when investigating a family secret. This family just happens to be
John Lennon's.
The SS
Moreton Bay docking at Sydney ca. 1932 (Jaksa Kivela)
During
1943, while her husband Alf was away at sea, Julia Lennon lived with their son
John at the Dairy Cottage, 120a Allerton Road in Woolton, Liverpool. The
cottage was owned by George Smith, the husband of Julia's eldest sister Mimi.
Alf returned in spring 1943 following a succession of voyages to and from New
York on the Moreton Bay and joined Julia and two and a half years old John in
the cottage, the only time John is known to have spent any length of time with
both of his parents.
Reportedly
Alf was shocked to find that while he had been away Julia had often spent her
evenings out at the local pubs and dance halls, drinking and singing with men
in the forces. Alf would later blame himself for this. It seems that although
he was initially dismayed to learn of Julia's behaviour, on reflection he
encouraged her, writing letters telling her that because there was a war on she
should go out and enjoy herself.
Alf
went back to sea in July 1943, sailing on the Aquitania and then the
Samothrace.
Alf Lennon as a prisoner
For
reasons muddied by the passage of time he deserted the latter in January 1944
just as he was about to sail from New York to Italy. He was detained for a
month before sailing to Algeria in February 1944 aboard the Sammex. During this
voyage he was involved (no one seems to know how deeply) in a plot to broach
the cargo of beer, spirits and cigarettes and sell it on the black market.
Caught red handed by military police he was again detained and in March 1944
sentenced to a month in prison. The money Alf had been sending from his wages
for Julia to collect back in Liverpool suddenly stopped.
Julia
had left the Dairy Cottage and returned to Newcastle Road to live with her
father, "Pop" Stanley, and sister Anne. She also kept visiting the
dance halls. It is unclear whether she was made fully aware of Alf's fate when
she tried to collect his pay at the Mercantile Marine Offices or whether she
simply believed herself a war widow but either way, if she had ever taken their
marriage seriously any ideas of marital fidelity now ceased.
Julia
took a job as a barmaid at the Brook House, a huge pub on Smithdown Road. Young
and full of life she was not short of male attention and began a relationship
with a Welsh artilleryman known as Taffy Williams, who was stationed at the
Moreton barracks*.
In
November 1944 Alf returned to Liverpool after 18 months away. Arriving at 9
Newcastle Road naively expecting to pick things up where they had left off he
was met at the door by Julia who told him she was "in the family
way". Initially she told Alf that she had been raped by an unknown soldier
and then admitted that she knew the man, Taffy Williams.
Alf and
his younger brother Charlie went looking for Williams and brought him back to
Newcastle Road. According to Charlie, when Williams was put on the spot he
confessed his love for Julia, she called him a "bloody fool" and
threw him out. Alf then offered to look
after Julia, John and the unborn baby, but Julia rejected the idea, supposedly
because Alf refused to get a “land” assignment. With one small child to care
for and another on the way she needed some stability at home and was no longer
able or willing to live a life where Alf was absent for long periods.
So
ended the strange marriage of Alfred Lennon and Julia Stanley. Not a single
photograph exists of them together.
In the
years before birth control pregnancies out of marriage were not uncommon,
especially with the "live for tonight, we could be dead tomorrow"
attitude prevailing during the War but that isn't to say such behaviour was
considered acceptable. In the eyes of some in the church, girls who found
themselves in difficulty had committed a crime against God.
Even at
the age of thirty Julia was still considered to be the daughter of the house
and on learning of her predicament, Pop Stanley, keen to avoid a scandal and no
doubt with Mimi in his ear, took charge of the situation and decided that it
would be best for everybody if the baby was adopted as soon as it was born.
Arrangements
were made with the Salvation Army for Julia to spend a period of confinement
with them at Elmswood, their home in North Mossley Hill Road, not far from
Newcastle Road. As the signs of her pregnancy became visible Julia would be
hidden here, away from the eyes of prying neighbours until she reached full term.
The subsequent adoption of the as yet unborn child would also be taken care of
by the home.
Salvation
Army newspaper article about the new Elmswood Maternity Home which opened in
early 1940 (click to enlarge)
There
is very little to be found about Elmswood on-line, and what is available makes
grim reading.
Operating
as the Elmswood Women's Social Services Centre from January 1940 the home had a
fee paying, private maternity facility, the fees from married mothers helping
to fund the poor or un-married whose illegitimate babies would often be
separated from them and put up for adoption - to Bernardos, The Church of
England association for Waifs and Strays (Now the Childrens Society) and
others.
There
were many non-private patients, the unfortunate mothers coming from all over
the country, not just from the Liverpool area. During their confinement these
girls had to work for their keep and were used as little more than servants,
having to perform domestic jobs in the home such as the washing, cleaning, and
the laying of the fires. Isolated from her family, Julia must have felt she was
at rock bottom.
“She
spent the entire pregnancy indoors in her room. We would see her behaviour now
as depression. My mother was being told daily ‘you are not keeping this baby,
you have done a dreadful thing”' (Julia Baird, daughter of Julia Lennon)
A
search on the Ancestry.co.uk provides
some first-hand recollections of Elmswood:
This is
where I was born, to an unmarried mother, in 1942. My mother spoke of this
period of her life only rarely, and when questioned (as) the story of my
beginnings in this establishment do not make good reading. My mother was there
pre my birth and for 4 months following. She was unable to breast feed and she
was given, what I believe to be a food supplement, called ' Bengers**' to spoon
feed me. She also had to work, carrying up coal from the basement to upper
floors, as well as other domestic jobs.
According
to my mother the girls were constantly reminded of their ' sins' and were
harassed to give their babies up for adoption.
Mum had a studio photograph of a baby, whom she said was the child of
another mother who refused to give up her baby for adoption. Either the child's
name was Jean, or the mother. Another mother jumped from an upper floor window
during her time there.
Mum
said that the pressure to give up their babies was unrelenting. However, she
refused to give me up and eventually returned to her family who were, to a man,
aghast at my physical state.
Eventually,
her family sent for her to return home, some 240 miles away. My uncle sent her
the train fare as, by then, she said she had nothing. When she left, for a 240
mile train journey in February of 1943, guess what she was given to feed me for
the entire journey - a bar of chocolate for a 4 month old baby. My poor
physical state was as a result of the inadequate, and totally unsuitable, diet
I had been fed.
Before
my mother passed away I asked, out of curiosity, what would have happened to me
if she hadn't returned home then. Her reply was simple ' You would have starved
to death'. (njsou276)
There
are other, similar stories....
My
mother went to this Salvation army home 6 weeks before the birth of her baby.
She had a referral from her doctor. Before the birth she had to wash the
clothes and clean for the new mums in the home. The carrying the coal fits in
with my birth mothers account of washing the nappies for the mothers who had
delivered. The coal would obviously be used to boil the water, amongst other
things.
My
birth mothers own parents had died young, so she had no get out clause. My real
father went to visit her and me in the home - he told them he was her brother
and was allowed to go for a walk with her and the baby.
My
birth mother said she would never donate money to the Salvation Army as she was
treated badly and persuaded to hand (me) over to better parents. She asked to
meet my adoptive parents and she was introduced to them and handed (me) over.
She saw that they were respectable and well dressed - at this point she too
believed the spin that (I) was going to a better home than the one she could
have provided.
My
adoptive parents had to have two references, one was provided by the local
vicar. My adoptive dad gave (Elmswood) a donation of fifty pounds. They also
gave my adoptive parents a second baby from (my birth) mother 18 months later.
Again he donated fifty pounds for the baby. They asked him if he wanted the
baby before it was born.
I was
shocked to hear about the 'Bengers' being spoon-fed to the baby. My adoptive
parents said my brother was in a poor state of health. My birth mother only
mentioned that she breast fed me - not sure about my brother - who they found
out had heart problems...the way the poor were dealt with was terrible (PamWarrington21)
I was
born at Elmswood, North Mossley Hill Road; Mum was there as a private patient
but she was really upset about the fact that the unmarried mothers who were
there were basically used as servants and, as commented on earlier, these poor
girls were made to do the washing, lay the fires, clean etc., I have no idea
why I was born there, my sister who is older, was born at home. My birth was
registered in the District of Liverpool South, sub district of Wavertree. (Liz
Culshaw)
On 19
June 1945, five weeks before the end of the war, Julia Lennon gave birth to a daughter
she named Victoria Elizabeth Lennon. Taffy Williams, the father, was not named
on the birth certificate.
Giving
up her baby was most definitely not her choice and one can only imagine the
gut-wrenching heartbreak Julia must have been feeling knowing she was going to
have to give up her new born baby girl.
The
Liverpool County Court records shows that an application for adoption was made
by Pedar Pedersen on 23 July 1945, Julia had only a matter of weeks with her
little girl.
“I know
that my mother fed the baby for six weeks. She fed her as Victoria and she was
taken away as Ingrid.” (Julia Baird)
Baby
Victoria was adopted by Julia's friend Margaret Pedersen (nee
Edwards*****) and her husband Pedar. Even though they were friends Julia was not
allowed to make contact with her. The Pedersens renamed the baby Ingrid and
Julia had the impression that they moved to Norway.
That
seems to be the last that anyone knew about her.
When
Julia finally returned home to Newcastle Road around August 1945 she was very
ill and suffering from what today would be recognised as post-natal depression.
She was thin, gaunt and depressed. Despite this she had to go back to work to
support herself.
On hand
to help with Julia's recovery was her sister Anne (nicknamed "Nanny")
who would later recall that she “took her hot food in the morning, came home,
took the cold food away, and gave her more hot food. She wouldn’t eat.”
Physically
it took Julia a long time to recover from Victoria's birth. It seems doubtful
that she ever really recovered emotionally from giving her baby away.
Consider
this. Within a year John was also taken from her.
The
only known photograph of John Lennon with his mother Julia.
There
are conflicting stories concerning whether John Lennon was ever told about his
half-sister's existence.
Certainly
at four and a half years old John was aware enough to notice when his mother
started to show the signs of her pregnancy. She was sent to Elmswood in early
1945 and John was sent to live with his Uncle, Alf's brother Syd and his wife
in Maghull for several months before she came to term. When John saw Julia
again, she no longer had a bump. Did he ever question why? What explanation was
he given?
To my
knowledge John never mentioned Victoria in any interviews. Some sources state
that John was told of Victoria's birth by his Aunt Harriet in 1964 which left
him "so overcome by emotion, wanting to find his sister that he placed an
ad in the paper, and hired detectives to look for her. They searched Norway for
Victoria, and came up empty handed,and John never found her. He died never
knowing her."
If the
story is true, the detectives were looking in the wrong place. Norway was a
red-herring. The Pedersens had changed Victoria's name to Ingrid and had
settled in Crosby, just up the coast from Liverpool***.
There
was no question of the Stanley family telling Julia and Jackie, John's younger
half-sisters, that their mother had had another daughter before they were born.
Julia
Baird (nee Dykins) had to wait until she was 38 years old to find out. It was a
complete shock. Whilst giving an interview to the Liverpool Echo's features
editor Bill Smithies she was taken aback when Smithies mentioned her mother's
four children. Baird would later write "It was said in a split second but
the look on my face told him I knew nothing about a fourth child".
Smithies apologised profusely.
Julia
immediately went to see her Aunt Anne, "Nanny" who had been living in
Newcastle Road at the time of Victoria's birth. It took Julia three visits
before Anne revealed the truth. When she finally admitted the truth she told
Julia never to raise the subject again.
In her
1988 biography, "John Lennon: My
Brother" Julia wondered whether the sister she had never met knew that she
was John Lennon's sister and had two younger sisters. From her own experience
she concluded that it was doubtful given the lengths the Stanley family had
gone to hush the matter up.
I
wonder if they went so far as to plant the story about the baby being taken to
Norway?
In fact
Ingrid did know she was John Lennon's sister.In 1966 she wanted to get married
and required her birth certificate. When she found it she found she discovered
she was related to the Beatle.
She first went public in August 1998 and later
retold the story in 2000:
As soon
as I became aware that John was my brother I started to collect every cutting
on him I could find and hid them in a drawer in my bedroom. I was terrified in
case my parents found out. It would have been a betrayal of them.
I felt
I couldn't contact John when my adoptive mother was still alive. I felt an
incredible loyalty to her because I believe she knew I was dad's real daughter
and she took me in as her own daughter with no obvious resentment about his
affair with Julia.
I knew
Mum kept a tin box in her wardrobe that contained family papers. When no one
was around I opened it, trembling. I found a yellowing, dog-eared adoption
paper that had been issued by Liverpool County Court. Then I saw my full name:
Lillian Ingrid Maria Pedersen, and my birth date. Above that were the three
words I had been looking for: Victoria Elizabeth Lennon - the name I was born
with. My real mother's name, Julia Lennon, was also there. I burst into tears.
(Ingrid
Pedersen, 2000, Melbourne Sunday Herald Sun)
Julia
Baird made no attempt to find Victoria/Ingrid, not wishing to disturb her life
or that of her own family. However, once Ingrid went public with her story
Julia managed to obtain her phone number and various members of the family
spoke with her on the phone. Despite giving Ingrid a no-pressure, open
invitation to visit them, as of 2007 she hadn't.
They
did meet unexpectedly, and briefly, on 8 December 2000. On the twentieth
anniversary of John's murder English Heritage unveiled a blue plaque on the
front of Mendips, his former home at 251 Menlove Avenue in Woolton, Liverpool.
Members of John's family were present for the ceremony, including Ingrid.
Julia
Baird's cousin Stanley Parkes "pointed out to me that Ingrid was hovering
outside the house. We spoke to her and I walked up the road with her for a few
minutes to talk". After the ceremony there was a reception at Liverpool
Town Hall and Julia asked her to go with them. "The cars were waiting and
we had to go, but Ingrid and her companion didn't come and sadly we haven't
seen her since".
(Julia Baird: Imagine This, 2007)
The
history of Elmswood
Elmswood,
built between 1850 and 1890 was owned by the cotton merchant Nicholas
Duckworth**** (1817-1889). Pevesner
(2006) describes it as: "Tudor Gothic in pale ashlar, with barge-boarded
gables, oriel and a huge square-headed, traceried stair window. This window
apparently part of an extension, dated 1878 with the initials of Nicholas
Duckworth on the porch to the right. The first phase might be by Cornelius
Sherlock. Further extensions and subdivisions for its present role."
Nicholas
Duckworth died at Elmswood on October 27, 1889. He was buried with his wife,
Lucinda Ann Eyes, at Holy Trinity Church on Church Road, Wavertree, leaving a
personal estate valued at £286,029 19s 4d.
At some
point afterwards Elmswood became the home of Alderman Burton Ellis, the Lord
Mayor of Liverpool before being bequeathed to the Salvation Army. The opening
ceremony of the Elmswood Maternity Home took place on 25 January 1940.
Julia
Lennon (nee Stanley) gave birth to Victoria Elizabeth Lennon here only five
years later by which time the regime at the home could already be considered
questionable.
Things
do not seem to have improved during the 30 years Elmswood operated as a
maternity facility.
Here's
a story from 1960:
My mum
used to frequent the Jacaranda club where the Beatles used to play. She often
had coffee with John and Paul. Sometimes a steel band* would play at the
Jacaranda club and one of her friends had an affair with one of the black
members of the band. I remember my birth mother saying that because the child
was coloured, she was told at the home that potential parents wouldn't be able
to be found. Adoptive parents did not want to adopt a coloured baby! Therefore,
that baby had to be fostered and she had to tell her prospective husband that
she had a child and she was forced to keep in contact with it. My mum felt
sorry for this woman as she did not want to keep the baby.
Another
friend of my birth mother was unmarried and pregnant - she went to her GP and the
GP offered to terminate the child if she posed for some girlie pictures. Nude
poses - she agreed as wanted to illegally abort the child. This worked well for
her - but sad that she had to offer her body as a bribe.
It all
sounds very sordid. I think some womens believed the indoctrine - they were
unmarrried and did not deserve to keep their babies.I believe my mother
genuinely thought that the other parents were better and could offer the child
a better life. The social security system was not on the side of unmarried
mothers. Maybe, the girls thought it was better to have babies under medical
supervision - not sure if it was provided but they would have been experienced
birthing women at the home; other than have the baby and leave it on the steps
of the church. I am not saying the Salvation Army people were right, but what
was the alternative?
It
would be interesting to hear peoples stories to see how they were treated by
the system and to publish findings to prevent this happening ever again to
women.
By
being so honest about my mothers experience - I hope that I do not offend
anyone - as this is a very sensitive subject. I just hope my stories helps
other make sense of what happened in Liverpool at Mossley Hill.
(PamWarrington21)
The
home was closed in May 1969, before re-opening as Elmswood House, a children's
home on 24 June 1970, with accommodation for 22 girls and 12 boys. It closed
finally in 1982.
For
many years it was the Mossley Manor Nursing Home, which it still was when I took my
photographs on 4 February 2015, hence my respectful distance.
Four
months later a report in the Liverpool Echo caught my attention:
A
Mossley Hill care home was shut down because it was “visibly dirty”, there was
an “overpowering” stench of urine and vulnerable residents were not being
washed, according to the Care Quality Commission (CQC). Magistrates granted the
CQC and Liverpool council emergency powers to close the “dangerous” Mossley
Manor Care Home, on North Mossley Hill Road.
Reportedly
some residents – including disabled pensioners and dementia sufferers – were
left with no hot water and the home was in a “bad state of repair”, the CQC
said.
The
building, which was home to 44 residents was shut down after they were found to
be at “significant risk”
(Liverpool Echo, 8 June 2015)
The
gateway to the premises is now sealed off and the house is invisible from the
road.
Added link 2020 from Liverpool Echo
I
wonder what went wrong at Elmswood? The Salvation Army usually has a glowing
reputation in humanitarian matters. There don't appear to be any horror stories about
Strawberry Field, their other, more famous premises in Liverpool so I can only
hope that the treatment girls received in Elmswood was the exception rather
than the rule.
I
promise my next post will be a happier one!
Notes:
* Some
sources say Williams was stationed at barracks in Mossley Hill although I can
find no record of there being a barracks there. The nearest one was probably on
Mather Avenue near the "Penny Lane" Fire Station.
** What
was Benger’s Food? I did a bit of
research and it seems to have been somewhere between baby milk and invalid
food. The entry in ‘Family Doctor’
(1938) described it thus:- "As it
contains a very small quantity of fat, Benger’s Food is made with milk to make
good the deficiency. It is a mixture of
wheat-flour and an extract containing the digestive ferments of the pancreatic
juice. When a mixture of the food with
milk is kept at blood heat, these juices partly digest the proteins of the milk
and the food, and convert the starch in the food into sugar.
This
action may be allowed to go on for five to forty-five minutes, and in the end
there may be very little starch remaining unconverted. This makes it a very suitable food for babies
and invalids. According to the time
allowed for preparation, the milk mixture may be graded to the capacity of the
child. As the baby grows, and its own
pancreatic juice comes into operation, less time will be required."
*** at
86 The Northern Road, in Crosby, L23
****
Read more about Nicholas Duckworth on the following sites:
***** There is the unconfirmed suggestion that Margaret may have been at Julia's wedding to Alf Lennon. Certainly an M. Edwards is recorded as Julia's attendant (or bridesmade). While she may be a completely different person, is it possible that this was a misprint or mis-transcribing of M. Eden, Margaret's maiden name?
The
photographs of Ingrid Pedersen with her adoptive mother and as a young girl are
all over the internet but presumably originated from Ingrid who must own the
copyright.
You can watch a brief interview with Victoria here
Quotes
from Julia Baird (Dykins) from her book "Imagine This" and "John
Lennon My Brother" as well as several interviews found on-line.
The
actress Kim Cattrall was born at Elmswood on 21 August 1956, probably in the
private maternity unit. Her family moved to Canada when she was three months
old.
Has anyone explained how the broadcaster Smithies knew about this family secret when it is clear that it was kept from Julia Baird and her sister?
ReplyDeleteGood question James. I wonder if he's still around to ask.
Deleteanyone know any more about Taffy Williams at all? really interested to find out more about him.
ReplyDeleteI grew up in Carnatic Road, which is very close by. I had a Saturday job doing deliveries and used to cut through the private path past Elmswood in 1968-69. I remember the girls standing at the windows, which were secured with heavy mesh, and shouting, screaming, letching and jiggling bits at me. A scary place for a 15 year old lad. Even then, just before it closed, nobody knew anything about what it was for or who the girls were.
ReplyDeleteI was born at Elmswood in April 1956. My Mum and Dad were married and knew nothing of the horrors of the place. Was anyone else born there around that time ?
ReplyDeleteI was born there in 1959.. my mother was unmarried and came over from Lisburn in Ireland.The adoption was arranged by a doctor friend of my adoptive parents . They met my birth mother briefly as I was handed over at six weeks old , she returned to Ireland and there is no trace of her since. I’m saddened to hear the horror stories from other posts . My birth mother told them they would be able to give me a better life. I’m saddened that she was likely forced into giving me up as it appears that women were bullied into believing this. Luckily I have had a good life and my parents are still alive.I doubt they err aware of the mistreatment of the unmarried mothers.
ReplyDeleteI was born there in 1959
ReplyDeleteamazing research and fascinating to read (albeit very sad)
ReplyDeleteMarvellous to learn all this about Elmswood. I'm 73 and born in Elmswood in 1948. My birth mother was just 18. I was adopted by a loving couple at 6 weeks old. I lived my childhood days so near in Ashlar Road. My beautiful adoptive mother died when I as 13. I spent many years from age 44 knowing of my birth mother and blood family and being part of their lives too. Mum would tell me that she had to scrub floors every day and that she gave birth to me in a room on her own. Then this grand tall lady came in took me away. My bith mum knew I'd be so well cared for. I am so pleased that I was adopted as life with my real mum was not how I would have wanted to live, now knowing so much.
ReplyDeleteDo any records still exist ?
ReplyDeleteYes I was able to apply to the Salvation Army and get mine with proof of identity.
DeleteYes the records for Elmswood are still held by the Salvation Army’s office in London.
ReplyDeleteI was born there in 1946 and was told the records for that period were destroyed and nothing is now available. If they are I would be interested in obtaining them.
DeleteVery interesting to me that Ingrid is on the record from multiple sources that it was clear that Pedar Pederson was in fact her biological father. She was so sure of this that it was a key component in her reasoning for not speaking out until her adoptive mother died, not wanting to humiliate her. Bizarrely, her words are always ignored, and it is assumed nonetheless that Taffy Williams was the father despite Julia's emotional rejection of him which led to the tragic forced loss of her baby, and the fact that she did not name him on the birth certificate. There is clearly more to this story that is not known.
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